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You Can’t Pet Him, He’s Working: How to Handle Unwanted Attention and Public Access Challenges

You Can’t Pet Him, He’s Working: How to Handle Unwanted Attention and Public Access Challenges

As a service dog owner, you are probably familiar with the challenges of navigating public access. A simple trip to the grocery store can turn into a gauntlet for public attention.

People gather around, wanting to pet your dog or ask about their training and your disability. Others, like store owners and employees, rush to tell you there are no pets allowed on their property.

The irony? A service dog is meant to give the handler independence. Meanwhile, the handler, the one person the dog is there to help, can’t get through a simple errand in peace. But there are some simple phrases you can use to stop busy bodies in their tracks. This article will provide a few useful ones.

Dealing With the Drive-By Petter

These are the people who just can’t resist petting every dog they see- including your working service dog. While it’s nice to love animals, a distracted dog can escalate into a dangerous situation. Here’s what happens when dogs are unable to pay attention to their handler’s need

Script Examples

Handlers can choose a response suited to the situation, based on the petter’s persistence and their own comfort level. Here are some options: 

De-Escalating Business Confrontations

Another common situation- you walk into a store with your service dog, when a store owner, worker, or manager runs up to warn you, “No pets allowed.”

It can get annoying, but it’s best to stay calm and objective rather than get defensive. Approach it as an educational moment. Remember, you catch more flies with sugar than vinegar.

As a service dog owner, you are not required to show a store certification to be on the premises. However, there are two questions a business is legally permitted to ask under the Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA):

The best approach is to beat them to the punch. Start with, “He is a trained service dog.” Then answer these questions before they even ask.

The Law Is on Your Side

When a store owner approaches you about leaving their shop, it may seem wrong to stay, but remember, the law is on your side.

According to the ADA, people with disabilities have a right to be accompanied by their service dog in any place that’s open to the public, including hospitals, retail stores, and hotels. This applies whether the facility has a no-pets policy or not.

Under the law, service animals are not pets; they are working animals trained to perform a medical function, and businesses are required to accommodate them.

If a handler’s disability isn’t apparent, store workers are legally permitted to answer the two questions listed above. Everything else is off-limits. Therefore, stores cannot:

Stores that impose these requirements are violating the ADA, and you can take action against them.

USA Service Dog Saves You the Hassle

Even when you know your rights and have the right words ready, having these conversations repeatedly is exhausting. A clearly marked, professional looking vest does the work before you open your mouth, stopping confrontations before they start.

We understand that your dog works hard, and wear and tear on accessories is inevitable. A faded vest or scratched dog tag gives gatekeepers and drive-by petters the perfect excuse to say, “I didn’t see that!”

That’s why you may consider upgrading your dog’s accessories, and USA Service Dogs offers high-quality options, including durable, comfortable vests. Browse our accessories section for more peaceful outings with your service animal. 

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